Coach toolbox - Experience has structure
Fundamental skills to develop emotional and mental well-being. In this article and the series that follows, I share the key techniques...
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Why won't he ask for directions?
To get a man to ask for directions goes against his nature and upbringing. Making him walk up to a stranger to get directions gets the...
Why we walk in darkness
We walk in darkness to cloak our brokenness, but the light is calling. Trauma, rejection and scarcity aren't just events in our...
Have you got the "right" mindset?
A lot is said about "mindset" and habits. I often wonder if people know the meaning, and more importantly do they know that they have the...
Don't Just Dream It, Be It!
The saddest stories are the ones where people's dreams are on hold for "when it" is ideal. Everyone has something that ties them down,...
Would you recognise unconditional love?
How many people would actually recognise the unicorn of "unconditional love" when faced with it? No, not that "I love you for the way you...
The Danger of the Illusion of Knowledge
Have you noticed how brazenly stupid people are? They ooze confidence about things which they have no clue about, outspoken and loud with...
The effect of incongruent beliefs
Do you believe that rich people are jerks? Answering "yes" puts this belief in direct conflict with your ability to make money.
Congruence
Congruence is one part saying, or expressing meaning that is equal to a second part.
As I began to love myself
As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth....
The life in a Saying
Saying can bring life. Here's the real message behind the good ones.
Is fear our greatest limitation?
Of all things, fear is our greatest barrier to success. If I asked you, what's the opposite of success, you would say failure. Of course,...
When perspective needs you to step back
I get it! Hell, I've even experienced it. Sometimes, we get caught up explaining our perspective to others, yet feel so frustrated when...
Cycle of Bad Decisions
Have you ever wondered why people repeat the same bad choices, over and over again? Have you ever wondered why people repeat the same bad...
Mind Reading For Managers
It's time to get the inside information on your employees, clients and ... if you so choose ... your friends.
Work at love
In the quest for love, I often wonder if the games people play are intentional, or could it be that the antics are fabricated in our own...
Value your dream aloud
So, imagine you're the winner on a game show and you get to choose your own prize. The options are a bottle of water and a fat diamond....
Reward isn't Ambition
There is a difference between what you do and why you do it, don't be confused.
Which sense did you choose?
We all use our five physical senses to understand and interact with the world around us. Did you know, you have a preference? That preferev
Thinking - our sneakiest habit.
Some habits make us feel embarrassed, some help us advance in life, and some are so sneaky that we don't know they even exist. All habits...
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